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Infidelity
- Again?
By Reena Sommer, Ph.D.
Did you know that the majority
of people who have experienced
infidelity in their
relationship will likely
experience it again - even if they move on to
other relationships!!
Pretty unbelievable - but
it's the truth. One would
think that getting badly burned once
would be enough. But that's
not quite the way it happens for
many....
There are reasons for why
infidelity, adultery and extra
marital affairs often become a
repeated pattern for some
people in relationships and not in
others.
Basically, it comes down to
the following three factors...
ONE - People's choices in a
partner or spouse are not in
line with what they need or want,
and what their spouse or
partner can give them. In other words,
there is a mismatch along the
important dimension of
emotional intimacy.
TWO - People don't make their
relationships a priority by putting the time and energy
into them that they need. That
leaves them open for
infidelity and cheating to
take root.
THREE - People don't
understand the issues that led
to the infidelity, adultery and extra
marital affair in the first place. They also don't see the
part they played in the relationship's failure. For
many people, it is easier to
blame
someone else for things that
went wrong rather than looking
inward for understanding.
Does any of this ring a bell?
If it does, then it's time to
pay attention. You don't need
another round of the heartache
and grief that goes with
infidelity and extra marital
affairs.
"The Anatomy of An
Affair"
This e-Book by Dr. Reena
Sommer sheds new light the
REAL REASONS why affairs develop. Did you
know that for most people who cheat, it's not about sex?
Hard to believe? This e-Book
reveals some interesting insights into
intimacy in relationships.
Once you understand these important
dynamics, you will be able to basically
"affair-proof" your
relationship.
About the author:
Reena Sommer is an
relationship and divorce
consultant, author and seminar leader. She has
written extensively of issues related to high conflict
relationships and divorce.
http://www.reenasommerassociates.mb.ca/affairs.htm
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