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8
Sizzling Tips To Make Your
Profile Standout
By
Amanda Lee
We know one of the hardest
part of creating your profile
is describing yourself to others.
Dating pearl.com gives you the
freedom to define &
express yourself so you can
put your best foot forward. Following are
some time tested nuggets that
can assist you in creating a
compelling & attention
grabbing profile.
Honesty is the Best Policy
As
the saying goes, honesty is
the best policy. Honesty is taken
seriously at Dating pearl.com
and it's the single most important
thing to remember when writing
a great profile. It's much
easier to write about yourself
if you are honest about who you are.
It prevents you from having to
spin ways to best sell
yourself or guess at what you
think other people want to read.
A major part of being honest
is not misleading people down
the road. People will assume that
what you write is true — and
you don't want to set people up
for a surprise later by stretching
the truth in your profile. For
example, if you hate mountain climbing, don't say you love
it just to grab the eye of an outdoorsy type.
What Sets
You Apart? How are you
different?
What gives you your unique
character? If your friends
were describing you, what would be
the three things they would
all say about you? These are good
questions to ask yourself as
you get ready to write your
profile.
Put Your Negativity Aside
Often times, people start
their ad off with, “I’m sick of …
!”, “ I’m tired
of…!” or “ I hate Brunette…!” etc. It’s
advisable not to include this
as the first
thing that you want to express
in your profile ad. It just
gives the impression of too many
unhealthy relationships in the
past. Instead, try to be more
positive & upbeat in your profile. Soon
enough you will notice a leap
in the response rate.
Stay Open & Be
Conversational
Leave
formality at the door and write your profile like you
are talking to a good friend.
Of
course, there are some things
you might tell a good friend
that you probably don't want to
include in your profile. It's
a good idea to avoid mentioning past
relationships and exes, or discoursing on being lonely or
desperate. Be optimistic!
Show How, Don't Tell
The best
profiles show, don't tell, who
you are at your best. If you
are known for being funny, try
explaining how or why you are
funny - such as, "I've
been known to show up to a party in a
wig", instead of "I
have a good sense of humor." Paint a
picture in their minds of the
kind of person you are.
A Picture is Worth a Thousand
Words
The importance of this point can’t be emphasized
more. Your smile, the
background that you're photographed in, what
you're wearing; they all paint
a picture of what you're truly
like. And including a recent
photo
will get you 800% the
attention.
Updating Your Profile Often
Keep your profile fresh. Every
now and then, go back to your
profile and update it to let
people know you're still out there.
Go Through Your Spelling &
Grammar Check your profile
for typos and spelling mistakes before
you submit it. Show that you
spent time thinking about them while
writing your profile. Always proofread your ad & run it
through a word processor, such
as Microsoft Word so that you can
have your spelling &
grammar checked.
(c) Amanda Lee,
Datingpearl.com
From, Amanda Lee Love Editor,
http://www.datingpearl.com
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